Veronica Adnitt 12th March 2023

I loved Sue; it was always a joy to be with her – she appreciated the goodness of everyone, so positive, uncomplaining … full of laughter, eminently teasable (of which I took full advantage but we both enjoyed!) …. it was a privilege to have known and cared for her. At our Thursday sessions at the hospice I was her script writer in creative writing classes, which she approached with thoughtful simplicity and wisdom and laughter. I was also her earring, bracelet and necklace designer, obedient to her uncompromising demands; she frowned, laughed and teased when I did not come up to her expectations in art, as I fumbled unimaginatively. In addition, I helped her at the lunch table … she loved the egg omelettes and chips, the salads … and, as for cakes and chocolates, her delight knew no bounds. Another source of glee was when we managed to hide extras, wrapped up to take home, from watchful eyes. One thing guaranteed to raise a Sue laugh was when I called Mike a GOG … (a Grumpy Old Git) … her words not mine! She bought him a T-shirt and coffee mug to prove it. I was always amazed how graciously and kindly appreciative she was – so pleased to see everyone. She enjoyed our walks round the woods at the hospice, especially at bluebell time, feeding the donkeys with carrots, seeing newborn lambs, listening to the birds, or just being out in the fresh air and enjoying the sunshine and views of the South Downs. Sue was one of nature’s children … eyes lighting up at the beauty surrounding her; her capacity for joy and appreciation was amazing. She was an example to us all how the human spirit can overcome adversity. I always came away the better for having been with her. I’m sure Sue will be with you all in spirit – supporting you in your grief.